When are kids too old for read-alouds?
Short answer: maybe never!
Reading books to preschoolers is a given, and children love it. But in my view, the read-aloud experience is not just for toddlers, and as children grow older (even into their teens), that time spent becomes ever so rich and enjoyable. Whereas reading to little ones often involves reading the same book over and over again (hello The Very Hungry Caterpillar), reading novels to older kids is an enticing invitation to everyone: reader and listener alike. Instead of a toddler’s “read it again!” we all say “let’s keep going!” with the same enthusiasm.
To me, enjoying a book together is like watching a movie together – only better! As with film, a story is shared and the message received. But unlike in film, details are created by the skilled use of words alone, allowing for each listener to naturally create their own vision of the unfolding events via imagination.
Watching a movie together is fun, but I’ve found that it’s not nearly as memorable – and doesn’t come close in emotional impact – as reading a book together.
Selection of what to read together can be difficult, but only because there are so many good books! There are favorites from the past to revisit and share as well as the opportunity to delve into new writings. You really can’t go wrong either way. Offer options, ask for suggestions and take a vote!
As kids get older, it seems that there is less and less time to indulge in this luxury. Increasingly, homework, activities and friends all vie for attention. So, while there is time, I’m going to endeavor to put all other things aside, and spend half an hour each day reading a good book.
Together.
I know I’ll never regret it.